is it ok if you lose your viginity to a non-virgin or to someone you dont love?
Only you can decide if this is okay. People shouldn’t do anything sexually that they’re not comfortable with, and only you can know what you’re comfortable with. And people’s feelings about sex and its place in a relationship may change over time.
There are many important things to consider when deciding whether you’re ready to have sex with someone, including
- your personal values and goals
- your feelings about the kinds of emotional and physical risks you are willing to take
- whether this is something you really want to do or if it’s something your boyfriend or girlfriend is pushing you into
- what sort of relationship you want to have with the person you have sex with
Learn more about how to know when you’re ready for sex.